Things A Man Expects From A Woman After A Divorce

Let’s stop creating villains in this kind of stories, the important thing is to leave the past behind, have happy children and full life for all.

When there are no children involved in a divorce, things are reduced to the separation of property and after that, living together can end. In the case of having children it is where things can get a little complicated, but leaving aside the selfishness and expectations of those around us, we can find healthy solutions.

Even today there are several stereotypes that fall on divorced men and women, but we can always choose the best, what works for us, what makes us happy.

After a divorce, a man expects actions such as these from a woman:

Things A Man Expects From A Woman After A Divorce

1. SELF LOVE, UNDERSTAND THAT THE RELATIONSHIP ENDED.

There are many women who insist despite the fact that the couple no longer wants to be with them and staying under pressure or pity does not lead to anything good. In addition, when you maintain some kind of relationship by having children in common, it is important to understand that not by treating them with kindness there will be an opportunity to return as a couple.

2. DO NOT USE CHILDREN AS BLACKMAIL OR SPIONAGE TOOL.

While for the man it is very annoying, the consequences also fall on the children because they are prevented from enjoying time with him and on the woman herself, because with this their head is filled with ideas that do not allow them to process the separation well. It is one thing to feel pain, but another to be filled with resentment.

When the children are with dad it is to have a good time and the only thing that mom should be involved with is making sure that they are in physically and emotionally safe environments.

3. NOT RECEIVING THE “LEFTOVERS” OF THE CHILDREN’S TIME.

With the desire for the child to maintain stability, it is common that in divorce agreements the mother has the children as long as possible, but there are several fathers who complain about the short time they receive with their children.

Dad’s time is not when mom wants to rest or when she has a commitment, but the one that really corresponds to him.

There are several moms who become selfish in the eagerness to protect their children but affect the time of living with dad. Let’s not make things more difficult than they already are.

4. RESPECT FOR HIS NEW COUPLE.

It is common that after a while, both remake their lives and when it comes to couples who had nothing to do with the divorce, there is no need to be rough. If that person does not have a good relationship with the children, it is normal to talk about the subject, but when the treatment is good, mom should know that no one will take her place.

If it is a couple who will formalize the relationship with dad, then you will have to treat her as such, and not make the child feel that having a good relationship is treason to his mother, he will simply have a different family but everyone can live in peace.

If this couple is with whom dad cheated on mom, the process will be much more difficult, because initially he will be seen as the villain. Dad must accept the questions and speak with the truth to overcome them as soon as possible. There will hardly be a good relationship when there was infidelity, it is best to see an emotional and mental health specialist.

5. NOT BLAMING CHILDREN FOR SEPARATION.

Many people fail to assume their responsibilities and go the easy way to share the blame. In the divorce, we even include the children in this process and with this, we damage their personal security, their self-esteem and the love they feel for dad and mom.

That is clear, the separation has been due to problems in the relationship, not with the children.

6. THAT SHE’S ALSO HAPPY.

Many will believe that it is not so, even the man lives a process to assume everything related to divorce or separation, but in the long run, we all want to be happy and that our ex-partner is also happy because when that happens, our children follow that example.