How to get him to commit to a serious relationship

how to get him to commit to a serious relationship

how to get him to commit to a serious relationship

Do you think that your boyfriend is a man who is afraid of commitment and marriage? For example, have you ever hear him talking about marriage? If you think your boyfriend is not ready for compromise but want him to advance anyway, please do not make the mistake of pushing him. Why? Because when you make this mistake, you will not make him take a step forward, quite the opposite, he’ll further move away from you. If you do not believe me, just try. This is simply not comfortable for him.

How to get him to commit to a serious relationship


I’ll talk about some things you should not do if you want your boyfriend to commit to you. There are many things you should do, but it is also important to know the things you should avoid. Without further ado, here I’ll show you two simple things you should avoid when you ask your boyfriend to marry you:

1. First of all do not be dependent

Dependence is a problem in many relationships. You know what happens when a man or woman is dependent on their partner in a relationship? The relationship falls into an abyss. Dependence eliminates the flow and harmony of the relationship, and if you do that, you will feel even more uncomfortable. So first of all do not ask your boyfriend to marry you like a beggar pleading for alms (Sorry for the comparison).

2. Do not be selfish

This means thinking about yourself and not thinking about him (I mean about his feelings).

This is something primal that can make any relationship to wither. No matter how romantic has been the relationship at first, selfishness simply deletes the romantic feelings with the passage of time. If you’re being selfish to ask your boyfriend to marry you, then the result will be something you do not want (I’m talking about total rejection and avoidance).

That is all. It’s not hard to remember, right? Two things you should avoid. Simple, yet many women are wrong. They are always very demanding and selfish (not all women behave like this of course). But if you do it right, you will not have the same problem as others.

Let me tell you one thing, a man never wants to make any commitments under the control of anyone. One man will only want to commit to marriage if he thinks is the best he can do. Only then, his decision comes out of the bottom of his heart. What does this mean? It means you must make him believe you follow him, not that you guide him.

I hope these two tips will answer some of your worries about How to get him to commit to a serious relationship. Good luck!

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