Proven ways for a man to think a lot about you

Many women have asked me how they can make a man keep an interest in them, be it their ex-partner or someone they are acquainted with.

The first thing is to clarify that to awaken interest in a man and keep him interested are different things.

Proven ways for a man to think a lot about you

Proven ways for a man to think a lot about you

It is because of this confusion that many women tend to make mistakes that end up driving men away.

But do not be scared.

You can still get that man or your ex-boyfriend or husband to keep the interest and think a lot about you.

To achieve that you must make sure to follow these 5 proven ways for a man to maintain interest in you:

Proven ways for a man to think a lot about you

1) Do not be an “open book”.

Men love mystery, so you have to worry about always being mysterious. Do not let this guy you are just meeting, or even your ex-partner, know everything about you.

One tip to achieve this is that every time he feels he knows everything about you, show him a different part of you (a hobby he does not know, a sport that you like to practice, music that catches your attention, etc.), one of which he has not knowledge.

This will make him ALWAYS stay interested and permanently want to discover more about you.

In fact, the “little mysteries” always keep a spark in all relationships, whether new or old.

2) Do not change yourself, just improve your positive aspects.

There is something in you that caught the attention of that man you love by your side. Some features in particular he liked and that is what you have to enhance.

Many women trying to recover their husbands or boyfriends change too much, they become unrecognizable, and this does not always guarantee results.

If you change too much, chances are you get the man to lose interest. That is why you should NOT change your personality, you should only enhance the positive aspects (increase your self-esteem) and of course, try to work with the negatives (jealousy, irritability, selfishness, jealousy again, etc.).

Always remember: you should not agree with what he says. This is key to keeping his interest and making him think of you.

3) Show yourself interested in what he is passionate about.

Many men let their women know what they are passionate about, be it a style of music, a sport, their work, their favorite hobbie, etc. and many women do not pay much attention to this.

This is one of the aspects that most destroy relationships. The lack of attention to the interests of your man.

If you show interest in what he is passionate about, you can have a much closer and solid relationship. If you’ve never played golf, but you know he loves it, maybe you should spend some time learning some punches and follow him one day to perform his favorite hobby.

We have to make it clear that you do NOT need to like everything he likes, you just have to show interest and most important of all: pay attention. When he talks to you about something that he loves, put aside your cell phone or TV and look him in the eyes.

And you never know, maybe you find a passion that you had hidden and that you can share together.

4) Praise him from time to time.

Men love being appreciated, just like women.

Make sure you recognize the little things he does and, show him appreciation.

Try to be as real as possible. When the situation warrants, tell him he’s smart, gentleman, that looks good, that the date was great, and that you had a great time with him.

If you do these little gestures he will feel important, he will feel valuable and he will want to do again what made you feel good.

5) Do not hurry on the sexual.

This is a mistake that many women want to recover their ex-spouses or boyfriends commit. When they meet with them after the break, they try to “catch” them by doing sexual things ahead of time.

This, unlike what many women believe, does not catch the interest of men, rather it lets them know that they do not have to work too hard and that is the main problem when it comes to maintaining their interest.

If you are a liberal woman this does not mean that you should “jump into bed” with him as soon as possible.

(Source: http://www.volverconel.com)