Tips to know if he wants a serious relationship with you

When you start a relationship, it is impossible to know if it will last for years or only a few months together.

According to the couples specialist of Match, com, Valeria Schapira, when you start you know where you start from, even if you do not have the slightest idea where to go.

“The reality indicates that people tend to get confused about the real intentions of the other,” says the specialist.


Do you want a serious relationship?

This question is asked by most women and, nowadays, by many men, given the feminine advances in initiating the conquest.

There are no closed or definitive answers; since sometimes, what seems like a passionate night can be transformed into the love of a life.

However, there are some indications that may indicate the path taken by the relationship you have started, such as the following.

Tips to know if he wants a serious relationship with you

 1. He confesses.

The first step is the most direct.

A man or woman who wants to have a partner seriously will have no problem in confessing it.

Maybe you are not the person that he chooses for that purpose but surely he tell you about his desire to find a life partner, to live as a couple and even the dream of having children.

Whoever wants commitment, usually tells it.

2. Takes care of the manners.

It is likely that whoever is in search of something transient does not take too much care of manners.

“A man who respects a lady and intends to continue knowing her to build something together would never do something like send her in a taxi home or make her go to the meeting place without offering to pick her up.”

This type of behavior reflects not only lack of manners but an absolute disinterest in the other.

3. He does not disappear.

If the person next to you stays available, be it with calls or visits, it is looking for something serious.

He does not have behaviors like appearing and disappearing for days and he does not play the mystery.

Evasive behaviors speak of lack of desire or commitment phobia.

4. There are no ambiguities.

“Someone who wants something formal with another does not go with excuses or theories of the type I’m separating,” says Valeria Schapira.

Maybe, you will never know how it starts and how something ends, but the way you behave from the beginning in the relationship will be reflected in the duration and quality of the connection between you and your partner.
And you, are you in a committed relationship?