Ten tips to find your ideal partner

Ten tips to find your ideal partner

Ten tips to find your ideal partner

It is not true that all men are equal by the law of nature. Here we share ten tips to find your ideal partner.

1. Live your life. The most important thing is to feel good about yourself. Finding the “perfect man” won’t turn you in someone different. If you’re lazy and selfish, finding a hard worker and generous man is not going to transform you. You can start by “copying” women you admire. Work hard to change those little defects that have not helped you in the past to find the partner you want (if you’re not sure what these are, ask your mom, she sure knows!). Improve yourself, feel proud of the woman you are … finish your studies, get a hobby that you like and you enjoy doing alone. No man, no matter how perfect he is, will make you happy, the only way is to start with yourself and give yourself what you need.

2. Accept. Clearly, not all women are Miss Universe, most of us do not look like the models we see in magazines, but it is also true that we all have something that distinguishes us and makes us look beautiful. Find out what it is that makes you special and unique among all other … you do not want to be someone you’re not. If you are a size 12, do not try too hard to be a size 6 for a man to like you … accept yourself as you are, with the body you have and if you would like to lose weight, go to the doctor, see what treatment is best for you and follow a healthy diet.

If you feel that your look is not the best, ask for help. No need to spend a fortune to look good and feel comfortable with you; Small changes can make a big difference. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable with your body.

3. List of wishes. Be clear what you’re looking for in a man. Make a list of what you want … maybe for you is important to have similar values and culture or that likes challenges, perhaps want to have children, etc. That’s something only you can define, what are you looking for?

Ask yourself; what do I want in a relationship? ¿Miss out of myself? ¿Find myself? Fill the gaps of my childhood? Keep me so busy, that I can not get depressed? Someone that take care of me? Having control? ¿Feel safe?

Ask yourself; where do I want to be in a few years? What kind of person do I want to be? Be honest with yourself. What do you really want? There is no right or wrong answers, just answers.

4. Learn from the past. You are not destined to an endless series of failed relationships. If it’s of any consolation to you, you’re halfway to success on finding your soulmate only by seeing what you’ve done “wrong” in the past, what has not worked and learn from this. You can not change the past, but you can do something about your future decisions. We all make mistakes, do not give up.

5. Feedback. Talk to your family and friends about the kind of man you want. Ask advice, ask them what they think did not work for you and receive feedback … maybe there are things you do not like or perhaps offend you but you might discover interesting things about yourself and how people perceive you.

6. Be open to possibility. Be receptive to new ways. You may think that a dating service or meeting someone online is not for you, but if you’ve never tried it you do not lose anything by trying! Do not close to one way … out there they say that “marriage and shroud from the sky come down” … you never know where you could find your Mr. Right.

7. Blind dates. Why not? If you get very sad to go out alone with him the first time … ask the person who is going to present you to make a small gathering where you can meet, but in a more “casual” way to lower the pressure of the moment. Do not take it so seriously, flow and see what happens. A blind date, like a first date, is only a first approach … does not have to be a romantic dinner and roses. Learn to enjoy the day without worrying so much about tomorrow … go enjoying date by date.

8. Leave home. Frequent places where the kind of men you’re looking for go. Sitting at home he won’t come. If you are looking for a man interested in reading, culture and arts, probably the den of fashion is not the place to find someone like him. If you want a man of faith, it is easier to find him in a church than in a bar.

The clearer you get what you’re after, it is easier to find.

9. Turn down your requirement. The man who will come into your life, is a human being, is not perfect, give him a chance! Is amazing you already know what you want and you’re clear with the kind of man you’re looking for, but men (like you) make mistakes. If he doesn’t fulfill 100 with your list, it doesn’t matter, meet him and allow yourself to be surprised.

10. Patience. Rome was not built in one day. Sometimes takes some time to figure out what you want and what you are looking for in a man and in a relationship. Give yourself time to discover and enjoy the process.