Sings That Indicate That Your First Date Is Not Going Too Well

The conversation, the gestures, the looks, the way of behaving … on a first date we all look at the same details to know if we can have a future with our companion … or not.

Surely you have experienced situations of all kinds, both pleasant and uncomfortable, but do you know exactly to identify the symptoms that make a date fail?

If you are an observer, you will be able to quickly know if your date is going well or is going to fail.

But as the nerves of the moment may not let you think clearly, here are eight signs that will tell you if your meeting is going wrong.

You can quickly discover if your date is not going well if your companion does any of these things …

Do not forget them!

Sings That Indicate That Your First Date Is Not Going Too Well

1. Arrives too late.

Not arriving on time, may be due to a thousand factors, but it’s certainly not a good way to start.

How can you be late for a first date?

When you’ve agreed to meet in a place with someone you care about, you do everything you can to make a good impression, don’t you?

2. Talks too much about himself.

If your date speaks of himself in the third person, flee.

If he does not do it but still spends a lot of time bragging and telling stories about his life, leaving you little time to talk, he does not deserve your time.
Several studies claim that narcissistic people are more attractive, but do you really want to be with someone who does not show interest in you and who only thinks about himself?

3. He is distant.

Body language can be more important than verbal language and is that a person’s posture says a lot about it.

The distance between the two, how he sits when drinking coffee and physical contact will give you the keys to his interest.

If he does not want to be near you, he refuses to make you a loving gesture or rejects you when you try to approach him, bye!

4. He is rude or disrespectful.

His respect for you is something that you should keep in mind, but it is not the only attitude you should measure on a first date.

If he does not show good manners in a restaurant or treats waiters and other people around in a derogatory way, be careful!

Maybe he is like this in other facets of his life and that person does not interest you at all.

5. Does not stop looking at his mobile.

That someone does not pay attention to you and is constantly looking at his mobile phone is one of the most frustrating things that can happen to you today.

If on a date your companion is busier answering Whatsapp and consulting Facebook than listening to you, it will be because he is not too interested in what you have to tell him.

If his attitude bothers you, you can always send a message as a farewell.

6. Names his ex too much.

It is normal in a date to ask about previous relationships or to mention an ex for specific things.

However, if every two sentences he pronounces her name, there’s something wrong.

Will he be obsessed with his previous partner?

Will he want to go back with her? Will they be friends? And most importantly: will he ever shut up?

7. You do not know what to talk about.

One of the moments that we fear most in an encounter with someone new is that there is an awkward silence.

What happens if you do not have anything to talk about?

Maybe you do not have anything in common, you do not share interests or you just do not want to have a conversation because you did not like him.

If on your first date you do not have a thousand things to tell each other, better do not have a second …

8. The meeting ends too fast.

We arrived at a quite logical point.

When you get along with someone and have a good time by their side, you would like the time to pass more slowly in order to enjoy the company more.

So if your meeting ends too quickly, the evening does not lengthen naturally and you hear the mythical excuses of “I have things to do” or “I have to meet with some friends”, maybe he’s not interested in you. You should be the priority at that moment!

If you want your relationship to work with that person you are going to meet … Take note of our advice!

You can not miss one so that the first meeting ends up being just the first of many others.